No relationship ends without one of the people in it feeling like they got the shorter end of the stick. There is always someone who loved the other more and this person will be the one most hurt when the relationship ends. This person always walks away with a lot of resentment and this is usually made worse if the person they were dating immediately starts dating another person. Talk about adding salt to an injury! It is difficult initially but over time, it is possible to forgive and let love dignity be your guide. Once healing takes place, it is possible to look at the person who hurt you as a friend and even forge a friendship that will be envied by many.
Tips on how to ignite a friendship with your Ex:
Forgive and let the resentment go:
Holding on to the pain that was brought about by the wreckage of your relationship only hurts you. You will never be able to give love dignity a chance if you do not let go. If you have to think of all the horrible things he used to do for you to let go, and then do it. Well, it can be harder if he was a perfect gentleman. Isn’t this reason enough to have him as a friend? Love is a tough emotion to understand sometimes but if you feel too strongly about him, maybe it is best to stay away from him for sometimes.
Find activities that will occupy your mind when healing:
Keeping busy is a great way to help your feelings fade. It is important for you to choose an activity you enjoy. Before long you will be so absorbed with what you ae doing you will not have time to focus on your feelings. When you finally meet your Ex again, you will not have the same feelings and you will even begin to appreciate him as your friend. What is important is for you to maintain your love dignity and not to fall into a toxic relationship.
Show him you have let him go:
Many people like to think they are indispensable. However, it is possible to be in a relationship with your Ex and even forget about your connection sometimes because you have truly moved on. If he feels that you have no feelings for him anymore, he may also decide that friendship is the best possible solution for the two of you.